"Living your best life now", in the past 10-20 years has become a phrase that has become a mantra for many people. It's somewhat synonymous with "Being the best version of yourself", albiet a bit more hedonistic. So what does it mean, and perhaps, what should it mean? Well that depends on the circle you're... Continue Reading →
Collecting and Connecting the “Dots” – With Bill Hoffman
In a conversation the other day, someone said "we need to collect, and connect the dots." I had never heard it that way. I have always said we need to "connect" the dots in our lives, as in; my past, my temperament, my thoughts, etc. to help me take responsibility and understand why I do... Continue Reading →
Leadership in Uncertain Times – With Bill Hoffman
Part two on the issue of uncertainty. There is a term known as VUCA. This is an interesting concept that has been adapted in leadership circles in corporate environments. Interestingly, it was coined in a military setting. VUCA - A term of the American Military "First described in 1985 by economists and university professors Warren... Continue Reading →
How to Develop Gentleness With Yourself and Others – With Bill Hoffman
The past few years up until right now, our "personal world's", and our world have been shaken beyond what even seems possible. A pandemic, a largely divided nation on many fronts, even a threat of another world war, unthinkable in our generation, is now knocking at the door. I have noticed on several levels,... Continue Reading →
Doing the Work AND… Doing the Work – With Bill Hoffman
Doing the Work AND... Doing the Work... What are we talking about? One of the first points that will be a topic in the NEW SEASON of EIS LIVE!, will be the concept of doing the inner work of the heart, becoming the most authentic and genuine self, so that you can know your... Continue Reading →
What Is Life Transformation? – With Bill Hoffman
What exactly is "life transformation"? Well, in our EIS Coaching Handbook, we articulate it this way: "Throughout the years, we have learned that “Self-Help”, “Getting Better”and “Being Fixed” are different than genuine, sustainable life transformation. Genuine change occurs through an inward transformation and will manifest outwardly through thoughts, actions, sustained behavioral changes, and making healthier... Continue Reading →
Are You Preventing Your Own “Success” ? – With Bill Hoffman
The first stop in understanding how you might be preventing your own success, is understanding what success actually is. Wikipedia frames it this way: "Success is the state or condition of meeting a defined range of expectations. It may be viewed as the opposite of failure. The criteria for success depend on context, and may... Continue Reading →
Discover your Type – With Anita Arrunategui
They come in groups of three. We have body, soul and spirit. We have mind, will and emotions. We also have the temperament categories of inclusion, control and affection. This blog addresses three categories of people utilizing the test. It is… For those of you already armed with the knowledge of your temperament scores, this... Continue Reading →
Characteristics of an Ideal Mentor – With Anita Arrunategui
“Meant to be; more than me.” That is my personal definition of a mentor worthy of their title. When you think about it, it's spot on. When seeking out a mentor, one who’s desire for their mentee is to succeed and even surpass them. This is the gold standard of mentorship. This chosen person exhibits... Continue Reading →
New Year’s Resolutions – With Bill Hoffman
Every year, most of us make some "resolutions"... what we plan on doing differently this coming year. While well intended for sure, many of us also fail miserably at instituting these resolutions! Why? Let's look at some reasons why these "well intended" resolutions might pre-maturely fail. You treat what will be a marathon like a... Continue Reading →