The Toll of Complex Trauma This is for those of you who are caught in what seems like an endless cycle of starting something, seeing glimmers of success, and then, for some strange reason you cause yourself to fail. This is self-sabotage, a common cycle for those who suffer from Complex PTSD, and/or recovering from... Continue Reading →
Another powerful EIS Leadership Training weekend. Creating principle based leaders, not just talent based leaders. Thanks again to Tony and Frances, my associate Damalie Namale, Sean and Kayla, Matt and Vanessa, Luis and Jackie, Dan and Shannon, Henry and Alexandra, and the great Tech Team that facilitated this event. We know that testimonies are the... Continue Reading →
It's been a very special weekend and I am a little emotional right now. But I am overwhelmed with gratitude for this family right now. As we enjoyed an incredible sunset together, the love in my heart overflowed. God has put us together so His purpose could be established in us and then through us.... Continue Reading →
Are you tired of being a poser, faker or wannabe? Are you tired of living out of your false self? Are you tired of trying to impress the people you think are important in your world? Are you tired of coping with your insecurities and covering it all up and coping and hoping? You have... Continue Reading →
This is why you are snapping at your partner during COVID-19 and what you can do about it. Emotions are at an all-time high. As a country..wait….across the world, we are all operating at reduced coping capacites. We are emotionally flooded, drained, taxed, and our ability to manage our emotions is almost certainly fatigued. If... Continue Reading →
As the old commercial used to say: "This is your brain... this is your brain on drugs." The brain characterized by an egg, and on drugs... a fried egg. Well, developmental and childhood trauma, trauma of any kind, can do the same thing. I have told my own story many times, and that way my... Continue Reading →
Sex is a tridimensional experience: spirit, soul and body. Anytime you have sex with a person, you bond with them. Dr. Daniel Amen writes in his book, Change Your Brain, Change Your Life: Whenever a person is sexually involved with another person, neurochemical changes occur in both their brains that encourage limbic, emotional bonding. Limbic bonding... Continue Reading →
The father wound is the “invisible” wound carried down from generation to generation. Our father are humans. Humans who have their own unresolved traumas, their own lack of self worth, and their own deep seated limiting beliefs. The first man many of us have a relationship with is our father. He sets the foundation for... Continue Reading →
How emotional intelligence (EQ) impacts relationships If you are seeking a partner in life, I suggest Sacred Search by Gary Thomas. You want to discover God's plan in your life, and there is no more important place for that to be realized than in your relationships. Emotional intelligence (EQ) is one of the secrets of... Continue Reading →